Is it normal that I find it hard to get off with toys?

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  • Which in particular? Vibrators, dildos, massagers? Do you do it alone? So many factors.

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    • I've tried them all, alone and with my gf, but it just doesn't work for me.

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      • Stick to clitoral masturbation and cunnilingus. There is no "rule" that says you need something in your vagina to have "sex".

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        • Okay, erm how exactly...? I really don't do this all that much....

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          • Okay... so you are a lesbian (or even an adult woman) who has no idea how to masturbate...

            Buy a book called "The Joy of Sex" - while written with heterosexuals in mind, I am sure you will find masturbation techniques in there that will assist you.

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            • "Joy of Lesbian Sex" would be even better, but it was published nearly as long ago as Joy of Sex, so maybe neither available anywhere these days.

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            • Thanks. I was asexual for a long time, so I'm kinda new to it all....

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