Is it normal that i felt like kissing my mum, but didn't?

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Hi! I'm a girl, and 18 years old. I do the french "bise" with my mum but sometimes I feel like doing a kiss on lips rather than a peck on the cheeks. I start wondering what it would feel like to have a boyfriend amd kiss him since I've never had any. When I think about kissing my mum afterwards I think its totally absurd and I would never do it.
Is it weird or normal?

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Based on 18 votes (9 yes)
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  • morganfairchild
    6 years ago

    Yes, it's normal to have that feeling. You should kiss her on her lips and if she likes it or is okay with it, then kiss her more often and longer.

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  • AntiArchon
    6 years ago

    Don't listen to the screwed up people.. Its normal that you have physiological reaction to physical touch specially now that your sexually curious and just so happens your mom is who you have physical contact with and you get a bit triggered but not lusting for her but wanting to be intimate with a guy.

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  • TheShyGirlFromWork
    6 years ago

    OH... You're Normal. It sounds like you are curious about learning how to kiss, and to be a good kisser. It is natural to practice with someone you know and love (like your mum), so you'll know how to kiss good when you get a boyfriend. I learned how to kiss with one of my friends (a girl), and then later practiced with my brothers... and became very good at it because they always wanted to "practice" with me.

    If you want to just give your mum a peck on the lips - instead of the cheek - then just go straight for her lips the next time for the bise. A good way to make lip-to-lip contact is to put your hands on her cheeks, gently press both her cheeks inward (very gently, to make her lips sightly pucker for a kiss)... and quickly kiss her on the lips. I'm sure it will surprise her, but after the peck you can say something like "I really prefer that kind of kiss"... "lets make that our kiss from now on". She may agree, and then you'll kiss her like that forever. If she doesn't want to... then you can talk to her about you wanting to learn kissing.

    So, learning how to kiss from your mum... I suggest you tell her that you are curious about kissing; but want to know how to kiss before your first boyfriend (so you won't be anxious or embarrassed). Explain to her that since you are inexperienced and nervous to do it that you need her to be a volunteer kissing teacher. Assure your mum that this is for learning, that you want to share the experience with her because you love and trust her. Now... to do deeper, longer, more passionate kissing... that will come with the many kissing lessons you have together.

    Good luck, and please, let me know how it goes.

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