Unfortunately, we live in a society that is strictly committed to the ancient laws of reproduction. Societies have been built around this evolutionary directive and deviation from this norm is punished in a myriad of ways.
While physical attraction usually leads to emotional attraction for most human beings, sometimes, the reversal is the case, and we become emotionally attracted to someone and from there comes the physical and/or sexual attraction. The decision to entertain this attraction and to allow it to grow must be a personal decision and the level of comfort you have with it, coupled with the intensity with which it persists might in fact suggest that you are bisexual: capable of being sexually and romantically attracted to both sexes. No matter how undesirable this label may feel, it does appear to be the case.
I think the way you proceed with your friend is very important as she may not share your feelings and may be put off by it. This could fracture your relationship completely and bring it to an end. There is also the possibility that your friend may want the same thing you do, but may not know how to handle the implications either.
Proceed with caution; weigh the odds and prepare for the consequences of whatever choices you make!
Is it normal that I fell in love with my best friend?
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Unfortunately, we live in a society that is strictly committed to the ancient laws of reproduction. Societies have been built around this evolutionary directive and deviation from this norm is punished in a myriad of ways.
While physical attraction usually leads to emotional attraction for most human beings, sometimes, the reversal is the case, and we become emotionally attracted to someone and from there comes the physical and/or sexual attraction. The decision to entertain this attraction and to allow it to grow must be a personal decision and the level of comfort you have with it, coupled with the intensity with which it persists might in fact suggest that you are bisexual: capable of being sexually and romantically attracted to both sexes. No matter how undesirable this label may feel, it does appear to be the case.
I think the way you proceed with your friend is very important as she may not share your feelings and may be put off by it. This could fracture your relationship completely and bring it to an end. There is also the possibility that your friend may want the same thing you do, but may not know how to handle the implications either.
Proceed with caution; weigh the odds and prepare for the consequences of whatever choices you make!
best of luck to you!