It is inherently dangerous, luckily there is lots of research as this actually is a far more popular fetish than you or I used to think! But there is always still a risk with trauma to a sensitive area..
We have to separate ballbusting from being called ugly.
The ball hitting I feel I completely understand. It is the cruelness in a woman to inflict a pain she cannot feel in return. That is it. The brutalness of this makes me twitch. Why this makes me feel not angry at an injustice but sexually stimulated is not something I understand but I'm perfectly ok with that.
I absolutely love this fetish and it has been very fun in relationships and gives me such a dramatically higher and different arousal than sex or anything else, the two are not comparable.
So I would never want to live without this and have accepted as a part of myself.
Whether or not it needs to be me personally getting kicked is something I sometimes think about since this was not a part of the fetish for many years until one girl offered to punch me. So sometimes I think maybe one day I will marry a girl who punches and kicks other men but not me. Who knows.
This fetish about being called ugly is something I rarely think about or have done. So I don't have answers yet.
And no, no, no, no, no to would a woman find it arousing although a few do, and this is nice, will it make her find me more attractive, acceptance(although I dont know how these are acceptance but you don't have to explain again) , the her bothering to do it, or any of these abuse.
You are trying to think about me like a normal man 😂
It is the anger a person feels when they see a person not care about treating someone so unfairly and then get away with it, but instead of anger I get this very deep feeling and very turned on.
Is it normal that I feel very uncomfortable about looking good?
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It is inherently dangerous, luckily there is lots of research as this actually is a far more popular fetish than you or I used to think! But there is always still a risk with trauma to a sensitive area..
We have to separate ballbusting from being called ugly.
The ball hitting I feel I completely understand. It is the cruelness in a woman to inflict a pain she cannot feel in return. That is it. The brutalness of this makes me twitch. Why this makes me feel not angry at an injustice but sexually stimulated is not something I understand but I'm perfectly ok with that.
I absolutely love this fetish and it has been very fun in relationships and gives me such a dramatically higher and different arousal than sex or anything else, the two are not comparable.
So I would never want to live without this and have accepted as a part of myself.
Whether or not it needs to be me personally getting kicked is something I sometimes think about since this was not a part of the fetish for many years until one girl offered to punch me. So sometimes I think maybe one day I will marry a girl who punches and kicks other men but not me. Who knows.
This fetish about being called ugly is something I rarely think about or have done. So I don't have answers yet.
And no, no, no, no, no to would a woman find it arousing although a few do, and this is nice, will it make her find me more attractive, acceptance(although I dont know how these are acceptance but you don't have to explain again) , the her bothering to do it, or any of these abuse.
You are trying to think about me like a normal man 😂
It is the anger a person feels when they see a person not care about treating someone so unfairly and then get away with it, but instead of anger I get this very deep feeling and very turned on.