I think i've asked similar questions, its easier to put it into a hypothetical like this "You don't have to believe me, but let's just say I am attractive... this is how it would feel etc" to avoid angry troll responses
There is also a thing called the "girlfriend zone" that was made as a counter attack to those type of guys' term of being "friendzoned". They look at you only as a potential girlfriend rather than as a true friend. It really bothered me once I realized this too. I just want to be friends with everyone, but then people take that friendliness as flirting, just because im not a guy. depressing
I am exactly the some, when a guy talks to me and I don't like him and he is just being friendly i think that now we are friends. But it is not the case and then I feel guilty for not treating him like a "man" and i just wanted to hang out as friends and he didn't have any idea..... I now know that it is extremely rare to have male friends and that I can only hang out with my boyfriend apparently... And the worst thing is that those guys get offended to that i thought we were friends.
Is it normal that I feel very uncomfortable about looking good?
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I think i've asked similar questions, its easier to put it into a hypothetical like this "You don't have to believe me, but let's just say I am attractive... this is how it would feel etc" to avoid angry troll responses
There is also a thing called the "girlfriend zone" that was made as a counter attack to those type of guys' term of being "friendzoned". They look at you only as a potential girlfriend rather than as a true friend. It really bothered me once I realized this too. I just want to be friends with everyone, but then people take that friendliness as flirting, just because im not a guy. depressing
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I am exactly the some, when a guy talks to me and I don't like him and he is just being friendly i think that now we are friends. But it is not the case and then I feel guilty for not treating him like a "man" and i just wanted to hang out as friends and he didn't have any idea..... I now know that it is extremely rare to have male friends and that I can only hang out with my boyfriend apparently... And the worst thing is that those guys get offended to that i thought we were friends.