Is it normal that I feel very uncomfortable about looking good?

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  • I know this is probably a troll post but I know the feel. Those guys are called Beta orbiters, its honestly disgusting how people go by physical attraction before emotional attraction and try to get with you just because they noticed that youre "hot", "cute", etc. without knowing shit about you.

    also it's funny how people online always get triggered about someone knowing they are attractive, lets see all the "LOL UR PROBABLY UGLY" type posts that roll in on this. only insecure people say crap like that.

    Its not conceited it its the truth. I personally do not care about looks at all but I know i am attractive only based on the fact that people are always telling me. Now cue the insecure haters "WHO, TELLS YOU THAT, YOUR MUM?!" lol

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    • Hi :) I am not a troll, I am just tired of trying not to sound snob or conceited so I was blunt and honest in my opinion of myself and others. This is how I see it, anyone who reads it has to get over their issues and understand that I am just being honest like you said. <3 Plus i didn't insulted anyone who doesn't deserve it with my paragraph.

      Thank you for explaining to me the beta orbiters thing.... I was so hurt and angry and all i could think is how can I show them how pathetic they are. But in reality I should just laugh at them and not give them the time of a day.

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      • I think i've asked similar questions, its easier to put it into a hypothetical like this "You don't have to believe me, but let's just say I am attractive... this is how it would feel etc" to avoid angry troll responses

        There is also a thing called the "girlfriend zone" that was made as a counter attack to those type of guys' term of being "friendzoned". They look at you only as a potential girlfriend rather than as a true friend. It really bothered me once I realized this too. I just want to be friends with everyone, but then people take that friendliness as flirting, just because im not a guy. depressing

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        • I am exactly the some, when a guy talks to me and I don't like him and he is just being friendly i think that now we are friends. But it is not the case and then I feel guilty for not treating him like a "man" and i just wanted to hang out as friends and he didn't have any idea..... I now know that it is extremely rare to have male friends and that I can only hang out with my boyfriend apparently... And the worst thing is that those guys get offended to that i thought we were friends.

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