Also, I wanted to say that I do regret not being more outgoing and brave when I was younger, not taking my chances, because I know for a fact that I missed out on lots of possible friendships and relationships that I could have had, and as a result of all that right now I feel kind of socially isolated. People form "groups" and after a while it becomes hard or impossible to make new friends. And it's something I think about everyday, that I can't have the freedom to hang out with people when I want and just have fun, be myself, and be able to share great experiences end adventures with other people. I used to have friends but they all basically drifted apart from me. And it just makes things worse because I'm constantly thinking that new people will judge me when they find out that I have no social life. It is tough to deal with and there are no real answers. I wish I could tell you that things do always get better, but I don't even know if that's true. All I can do is keep an open mind and continue to believe that there are nice people out there.
And as a guy, let me just say that when you find someone special, he will like you for you - your personality, character, interests, and quirks. He will never want you to change yourself for him, but he will always respect any decision you take to improve yourself and value whatever direction you want to take your life. Good luck my friend!
IIN that I feel useless?
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Also, I wanted to say that I do regret not being more outgoing and brave when I was younger, not taking my chances, because I know for a fact that I missed out on lots of possible friendships and relationships that I could have had, and as a result of all that right now I feel kind of socially isolated. People form "groups" and after a while it becomes hard or impossible to make new friends. And it's something I think about everyday, that I can't have the freedom to hang out with people when I want and just have fun, be myself, and be able to share great experiences end adventures with other people. I used to have friends but they all basically drifted apart from me. And it just makes things worse because I'm constantly thinking that new people will judge me when they find out that I have no social life. It is tough to deal with and there are no real answers. I wish I could tell you that things do always get better, but I don't even know if that's true. All I can do is keep an open mind and continue to believe that there are nice people out there.
And as a guy, let me just say that when you find someone special, he will like you for you - your personality, character, interests, and quirks. He will never want you to change yourself for him, but he will always respect any decision you take to improve yourself and value whatever direction you want to take your life. Good luck my friend!