Is it normal that i feel ugly compared to his ex's?

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Well ,
Ive been dating my boyfriend for about 4 months and things are great:)
So being the curious person I am I just had to ask him about his ex's later that day I was on Myspace and came upon their profiles. They are simply gorgeous!
Also when he was talking about them I felt like he really had strong feelings for them. My point is I am two years younger than him and i guess you could say I'm cute not that I have low self esteem but those girls were just so gorgeous I'm just being honest i have nothing on them (again not that I have low self esteem its simply the truth im just being realistic)Also they are his age unlike me that is just cute and younger and hes my first bf. I feel like hes been with these gorgeous girls (i regret seeing their pics :\ ) who are experienced and what not and he went from that to me sometimes I feel like he might compare me and feel like I have nothing on them or feel like wow how am I with her when I had that. Why do I feel this way? Is it normal?

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  • dappled
    13 years ago

    Hey, of course you have something on them. You have him and they don't. You're the one he's with. Not them. If you ever wanted to use something as a confidence boost, this is it. He chooses you, and there's got to be a reason for that.

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  • flamingteeth
    13 years ago

    Everybody looks good on Myspace. They could look totally different in real life! Hes with you now thats all that matters!!

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  • CountryRoads
    13 years ago

    You'll drive yourself crazy with these thoughts about those girls. I know it's cliche, but he's with you for a reason, and he's not with them anymore. Ask him what he loves you for, and be proud of yourself. I'm sure he thinks you're much better than his exes.

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  • aduusw
    13 years ago

    U know love isn't about looks.. If he is with you it's because he loves you... Just ask him.

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  • red678
    13 years ago

    It's normal and you do have him... and make love to him.

    If your self-esteem has dropped check-out the gym, get a facial at the salon and maybe buy a new sexy outfit and you'll feel better.

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  • DannyKanes
    13 years ago

    Don't be stupid, he's with you not them

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