Sex, like anything else, requires experience and practice to master. The ability to please someone you love very much is a lot more important, IMO, than some outdated, silly ideal of maintaining your virginity until you marry. It's a wonderful thought to have your first time be with somebody special, but if you are both virgins, then the fumbling and bumbling of that first time will most likely be remembered for how unpleasurable it was, rather than for how wonderful it was.
However, you obviously don't care to hear this, which is fine, but when you two have been married for several years and curiosity gets the better of one of you and cheats, perhaps you will remember this conversation and regret your closed mindedness.
Again, and sincerely meant, good luck.
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Sex, like anything else, requires experience and practice to master. The ability to please someone you love very much is a lot more important, IMO, than some outdated, silly ideal of maintaining your virginity until you marry. It's a wonderful thought to have your first time be with somebody special, but if you are both virgins, then the fumbling and bumbling of that first time will most likely be remembered for how unpleasurable it was, rather than for how wonderful it was.
However, you obviously don't care to hear this, which is fine, but when you two have been married for several years and curiosity gets the better of one of you and cheats, perhaps you will remember this conversation and regret your closed mindedness.
Again, and sincerely meant, good luck.