That's normal, don't worry. And you're not doing anything wrong. I also felt that way on the first time I did something "sexual" with my boyfriend. I felt bad, I felt exactly how you are feeling right now. And I thought he was thinking bad things about me, too.
However, he noticed that I was acting weird, and I ended up telling him how I was feeling. Then, everything went well because he told me that everything was fine and that he was not thinking badly about me because of it. He also said that do that "sexual things" or show that side of me doesn't make me a dirty slut. That was ALL I wanted to hear. And now I don't feel dirty anymore after doing stuff with him, I'm pretty comfortable with it.
Maybe that's also what you need to hear. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, you will feel much better.
Is It Normal that I feel this way about what I did?
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That's normal, don't worry. And you're not doing anything wrong. I also felt that way on the first time I did something "sexual" with my boyfriend. I felt bad, I felt exactly how you are feeling right now. And I thought he was thinking bad things about me, too.
However, he noticed that I was acting weird, and I ended up telling him how I was feeling. Then, everything went well because he told me that everything was fine and that he was not thinking badly about me because of it. He also said that do that "sexual things" or show that side of me doesn't make me a dirty slut. That was ALL I wanted to hear. And now I don't feel dirty anymore after doing stuff with him, I'm pretty comfortable with it.
Maybe that's also what you need to hear. Talk to him and tell him how you feel, you will feel much better.