Is it wise to be considering marriage with someone you may not be at all sexually compatible with? If you haven't even seen each other naked, then you are a very long way from being prepared for marriage. This isn't the 17th century and unless you are both totally a-sexual, sex will be an important part of your marriage, so don't you think you two should know if you are at all compatible?
Another problem with being a virgin when you marry, is that it is very normal to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, and this could cause problems down the road. You shouldn't get married until you have had at least a few partners, if you are hoping for a life long relationship.
So I guess were just supposed to sleep around. Well what ever I want my first to be with someone special not someone that is just going to walk out of my life and besides, I want them to love me for me not my BOOBS and my VAGINA.
Sex, like anything else, requires experience and practice to master. The ability to please someone you love very much is a lot more important, IMO, than some outdated, silly ideal of maintaining your virginity until you marry. It's a wonderful thought to have your first time be with somebody special, but if you are both virgins, then the fumbling and bumbling of that first time will most likely be remembered for how unpleasurable it was, rather than for how wonderful it was.
However, you obviously don't care to hear this, which is fine, but when you two have been married for several years and curiosity gets the better of one of you and cheats, perhaps you will remember this conversation and regret your closed mindedness.
Again, and sincerely meant, good luck.
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Is it wise to be considering marriage with someone you may not be at all sexually compatible with? If you haven't even seen each other naked, then you are a very long way from being prepared for marriage. This isn't the 17th century and unless you are both totally a-sexual, sex will be an important part of your marriage, so don't you think you two should know if you are at all compatible?
Another problem with being a virgin when you marry, is that it is very normal to wonder what it would be like to be with someone else, and this could cause problems down the road. You shouldn't get married until you have had at least a few partners, if you are hoping for a life long relationship.
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But we love each other, and I don't want anyone else except him. I don't want to be like everyone else and have several sex partners. I only want him.
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Good luck to you two.
So I guess were just supposed to sleep around. Well what ever I want my first to be with someone special not someone that is just going to walk out of my life and besides, I want them to love me for me not my BOOBS and my VAGINA.
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Sex, like anything else, requires experience and practice to master. The ability to please someone you love very much is a lot more important, IMO, than some outdated, silly ideal of maintaining your virginity until you marry. It's a wonderful thought to have your first time be with somebody special, but if you are both virgins, then the fumbling and bumbling of that first time will most likely be remembered for how unpleasurable it was, rather than for how wonderful it was.
However, you obviously don't care to hear this, which is fine, but when you two have been married for several years and curiosity gets the better of one of you and cheats, perhaps you will remember this conversation and regret your closed mindedness.
Again, and sincerely meant, good luck.