Make sure you're not just using pretty young girls/women, when you're comparing yourself to them.
It can be compelling to think in terms of all or nothing, and make up a story about yourself that says that you just can't. If you're like me, then it may help keep the dreams intact, if there's this great divide between you and their fulfillment.
Sure, your dreams may not be realized in their most pristine and beautiful form. If they were, you probably wouldn't even be in a wheelchair. But getting a girlfriend, even one you'd like to 'boybefriend', is probably not out of the picture.
From my impression of how girls feel, you may have to change your attitude, though.
is it normal that I feel this way?
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Make sure you're not just using pretty young girls/women, when you're comparing yourself to them.
It can be compelling to think in terms of all or nothing, and make up a story about yourself that says that you just can't. If you're like me, then it may help keep the dreams intact, if there's this great divide between you and their fulfillment.
Sure, your dreams may not be realized in their most pristine and beautiful form. If they were, you probably wouldn't even be in a wheelchair. But getting a girlfriend, even one you'd like to 'boybefriend', is probably not out of the picture.
From my impression of how girls feel, you may have to change your attitude, though.