Short remark, that may or may not help you see the situation from a different angle.
As a man, I'm not talking about my problems. Period. At least not to the people that I don't know well. Therefore, I may appear as very relaxed/aloof at first.
If I get to know someone better, I don't feel like I have to hide anymore and then I start talking about my problems. But that makes me look less confident and strong - things, that made the woman want me in the first place.
That is one of the reasons why I don't like to open up to people completely.
But if you even as much as suspect that you are being with him out of pity, then please, please just break up. You are not doing any favours by being with him out of pity, neither to him nor to yourself.
Is it normal that I feel this way?
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Short remark, that may or may not help you see the situation from a different angle.
As a man, I'm not talking about my problems. Period. At least not to the people that I don't know well. Therefore, I may appear as very relaxed/aloof at first.
If I get to know someone better, I don't feel like I have to hide anymore and then I start talking about my problems. But that makes me look less confident and strong - things, that made the woman want me in the first place.
That is one of the reasons why I don't like to open up to people completely.
But if you even as much as suspect that you are being with him out of pity, then please, please just break up. You are not doing any favours by being with him out of pity, neither to him nor to yourself.