I kind of agree with you because over the years I've seen marriages that seemed lovey dovey fall apart once they decided to have kids. However I kind of disagree, since I've seen other people who were actually able to handle all the stress of it and are still together and still very happy. The way I see it, some people can handle the task of raising a family, and some can't. I admire the people that can and I hope that one day I can do the same.
A lot of the time they do cause extreme stress yes! I think it's much better if people think carefully whether they really want kids before getting pregnant or doing it just because everyone else does. Even people who planned kids can find it overwhelming.
Is it normal that I feel that kids just ruin marriages/relationships?
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I kind of agree with you because over the years I've seen marriages that seemed lovey dovey fall apart once they decided to have kids. However I kind of disagree, since I've seen other people who were actually able to handle all the stress of it and are still together and still very happy. The way I see it, some people can handle the task of raising a family, and some can't. I admire the people that can and I hope that one day I can do the same.
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A lot of the time they do cause extreme stress yes! I think it's much better if people think carefully whether they really want kids before getting pregnant or doing it just because everyone else does. Even people who planned kids can find it overwhelming.