The media strikes again! We are constantly hounded by images in the media about what the perfect body should be like when really only a very small percentage of people actually look like that.
A lot of people dont realize how men can suffer from poor body image as much as women can. Let me let you in on a little secret...just like men, women have their sexual preferences. My boyfriend is a tall dude, he is in good shape, but he cant see, to completely get rid of this thin layer of body fat on his abs. But what I keep telling him is that I love it! I love the way it feels he feels more human and natural that way. I dont need hard wash board abs against me. It not something I like or need my man to have. Some women may disagree with me,but that just my preference. You obviously must have some kind of sex appeal or else you would be able to get anyone! And sex appeal isnt always about just looks its has to do with personality as well. I'm sure you're a decent looking, nice guy who is just being too hard on yourself. Remember that you dont need to look like a male model to get women! Just be yourself and have confidence! There is nothing sexier than confidence!
Is it normal that I feel so low in myself when around girls I like?
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The media strikes again! We are constantly hounded by images in the media about what the perfect body should be like when really only a very small percentage of people actually look like that.
A lot of people dont realize how men can suffer from poor body image as much as women can. Let me let you in on a little secret...just like men, women have their sexual preferences. My boyfriend is a tall dude, he is in good shape, but he cant see, to completely get rid of this thin layer of body fat on his abs. But what I keep telling him is that I love it! I love the way it feels he feels more human and natural that way. I dont need hard wash board abs against me. It not something I like or need my man to have. Some women may disagree with me,but that just my preference. You obviously must have some kind of sex appeal or else you would be able to get anyone! And sex appeal isnt always about just looks its has to do with personality as well. I'm sure you're a decent looking, nice guy who is just being too hard on yourself. Remember that you dont need to look like a male model to get women! Just be yourself and have confidence! There is nothing sexier than confidence!
Good luck!