Is it normal that i feel regretful not transitioning?

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I at one point was amidst transitioning from MtoF. I did so for nearly two years. I fell in love with a beautiful woman and my transitioning made it difficult to develop our relationship. It became more of a burden to me to continue because of my feelings for her. I slowly stopped my process and returned to society as a man...I am happy it has brought us into a prospering relationship with a stepdaughter. We love each other dearly. But something inside me deeply misses how I was. While transitioning, it was very difficult to go through..socially, psychologically and physically. I just don't wanna go through that again. And knowing the upside and the downside of attempting it again. I am strickly only into women. I just cant have both a family and also being transgendered. I dont know if its okay to sacrifice personal happiness for life happiness.

Should consider transitioning again. 4
I understand what you are feeling. Do what you gotta do. 4
Wish you luck figuring that out. 8
Tell my girlfriend about how I feel..even if it ends our relationship 14
I should really just suppress it. It'll just be a burden on others 3
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  • DannyKanes
    9 years ago

    You should be proud regardless of how you feel. It takes a strong person to others before themselves. Just make sure, once in a while, you look after yourself.

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  • Zonfire80
    5 years ago

    You need to tell your girlfriend how you feel. Are you sure you're transgender?

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  • Westone
    9 years ago

    It can...but It didn't really for me. I worried about that at first...but I know what I like. Gender and sexuality are not related. Biologically to procreate...sure. Anything else in life it is irrelevant. I still Identify only to close friends as being transgendered because to the rest of society its none of their business. Its not something people must be on a need to know basis. All I know how to be is me.

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  • Nokiot9
    9 years ago

    This is something that kind of confuses me about TG people's. I don't mean to be offensive, I'm genuinely curious. So you are like... Attracted to females and transitioning to a female? So you feel like you are kind of a lesbian female stuck in a males body? I understand your sexuality and attractions don't change just because your appearance and hormones change, but wouldn't that have SOME effect on it even if it Is minimal?

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