Oh for fuck sake. I refreshed the page and clicked on cheat on her instead by accident. That one on cheat on her, just ignore, that was me by mistake.
This is a tricky situation. Do you work? If you do, leave her and take your kids with you. She obviously doesn't care enough about the family to keep her legs from being spread, and so shouldn't be the one looking after the family.
If you don't work, depending on if you want to be with your kids still, leave.
You need to do something other than forgive her. You should not of had to deal with this at all. If she done this to you in the first place when she knew you were going through depression, then she's scum, not deserving a second chance. She doesn't deserve you.
You are not at fault here, she is. I seen your reply to the other user, and it pains me to see that "you" felt like "you" had to try sort it out because of "her" abuse. When "you" believe it is your responsibility to please her when she is being abusive to you, that's when it becomes domestic violence, which is what this is.
Try get your kids and not be alone, or try live with family for a while, or perhaps try find a woman that you deserve, not the garbage you are with now.
Is it normal that I feel "lost" because my wife cheated on me?
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Oh for fuck sake. I refreshed the page and clicked on cheat on her instead by accident. That one on cheat on her, just ignore, that was me by mistake.
This is a tricky situation. Do you work? If you do, leave her and take your kids with you. She obviously doesn't care enough about the family to keep her legs from being spread, and so shouldn't be the one looking after the family.
If you don't work, depending on if you want to be with your kids still, leave.
You need to do something other than forgive her. You should not of had to deal with this at all. If she done this to you in the first place when she knew you were going through depression, then she's scum, not deserving a second chance. She doesn't deserve you.
You are not at fault here, she is. I seen your reply to the other user, and it pains me to see that "you" felt like "you" had to try sort it out because of "her" abuse. When "you" believe it is your responsibility to please her when she is being abusive to you, that's when it becomes domestic violence, which is what this is.
Try get your kids and not be alone, or try live with family for a while, or perhaps try find a woman that you deserve, not the garbage you are with now.