Is it normal that i feel like this after i run into my ex?

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My ex and I broke up about 2 years ago and stayed good friends for a while then lost contact. The relationship wasn't all that good at the time because we were young but I think it had potential.
I miss him sometimes but its not an overwhelming feeling since i'm an independant person and don't go into many relationships. But if I were to go into a relationship with anyone it would be him.
The other day he drove past me and waved. We didn't talk or anything but I can't stop thinking about it, dreaming about him, and fantasizing about us. And now only in a sexual way, even just as us being friends again. So is it normal for him to be on my mind this much?

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Actually you do sound a bit overwhelmed. Have you thought of going a step further & checking in with him about these feelings. Seems you have unfinished business. Key phrase; "The relationship wasn't all that good at the time because we were young but I think it had potential."

    Is that your knees knocking? Or opportunity?

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  • bigtoy
    12 years ago | pl

    She's a stalker - watch out! lol

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  • mumbum
    12 years ago | pl

    Write down everything that was the problem when you were dating, and think about what was circumstances and what was personalty.. This MAY help.. Good luck!

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  • vero
    13 years ago | pl

    i think your obssed with him

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago | pl

    Exes are meant to remain exes. Don't be dumb and go back.

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago | pl

      Not so sure - certainly not always - depends. I know people who went out when younger, reconnected later & have successful marriages.

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  • tjones925
    13 years ago | pl

    It seems to me like you aren't over your ex. I feel the same way with mine, we live in diff cities so I haven't seen him in a long time but my heart started pounding when I got a fb msg from him and since then I can't stop dreaming about him. Maybe y'all could work it out again? Or finding someone new that you actually like can make that go away.

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