Hellllll to the no. You both aren't happy but want to be. I know that you may think that he's the best you can get because of your insecurities, but he's just a high school boyfriend. How much time do you actually spend in person with each other? Because if all you're doing is messaging over Facebook and whatever else constantly than you guys don't even know how you would do in person. Can you carry on a decent conversation with him over the phone? Do you really love him or the idea of what he was when you were in high school? People change, and not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. It's time to break it off, focus on your post-highschool things (college, job, whatever) and get your life together. Also, try to get over your insecurities. Go and talk to someone, it'll be worth it. Bottom line is, this is going to end sooner or later. Let it be sooner because once you let go of him now, you're going to be much happier. I guarantee it.
Is it normal that I feel like my relationship with him is doomed? :(
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Hellllll to the no. You both aren't happy but want to be. I know that you may think that he's the best you can get because of your insecurities, but he's just a high school boyfriend. How much time do you actually spend in person with each other? Because if all you're doing is messaging over Facebook and whatever else constantly than you guys don't even know how you would do in person. Can you carry on a decent conversation with him over the phone? Do you really love him or the idea of what he was when you were in high school? People change, and not everyone is meant to stay in your life forever. It's time to break it off, focus on your post-highschool things (college, job, whatever) and get your life together. Also, try to get over your insecurities. Go and talk to someone, it'll be worth it. Bottom line is, this is going to end sooner or later. Let it be sooner because once you let go of him now, you're going to be much happier. I guarantee it.