my opinion about porn is old fashion and so is my boyfriends but one day just after we got back together from breaking up for a month recently i found something on our computer, before we agreed to give it another shot we sat down and told each other every thing, our worries, lies, secrets and what we did while we where apart. i asked him how many times are you hiding any thing, he said no, then i found that!!!!
My trust was already low due to him cheating on me before we broke up but seeing that and him telling me he told me every thing, well i hardly have any trust left. Its been 4 years since that day, we are still not great but we are getting there. im not saying what you are going through is easier, god no, but you said you watch porn too, how come that dropped your trust in him?
I agree with thatguy777, talk to him, tell him how you feel and why, don't keep it in side or your actions will push him away, trust me. sometimes telling people how you feel makes you realize how stupid it is or you figure out what you want. If he is madly in love with you, then he will understand and stand by you.
Is it normal that I feel like my relationship with him is doomed? :(
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my opinion about porn is old fashion and so is my boyfriends but one day just after we got back together from breaking up for a month recently i found something on our computer, before we agreed to give it another shot we sat down and told each other every thing, our worries, lies, secrets and what we did while we where apart. i asked him how many times are you hiding any thing, he said no, then i found that!!!!
My trust was already low due to him cheating on me before we broke up but seeing that and him telling me he told me every thing, well i hardly have any trust left. Its been 4 years since that day, we are still not great but we are getting there. im not saying what you are going through is easier, god no, but you said you watch porn too, how come that dropped your trust in him?
I agree with thatguy777, talk to him, tell him how you feel and why, don't keep it in side or your actions will push him away, trust me. sometimes telling people how you feel makes you realize how stupid it is or you figure out what you want. If he is madly in love with you, then he will understand and stand by you.