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Whenever someone asks me a stupid question or does something to ruin what I plan on doing I usually call them an idiot or an asshole. Can someone tell me if its normal to feel guilty after doing so?
Why? They did something wrong after all I think they should take it as only fair and find a way to keep me from feeling guilty afterwards...it's only the fair thing to say to someone after they do something assholeish. And why would they think that? Don't they understand that they did something wrong?
Because your perception of what it is to be an idiot or an asshole is not always shared by everyone else. How other people behave in our eyes relies a great deal upon our perception of how people are supposed to be.
Besides, dude, if you're "doing the right thing" then why do you FEEL like an asshole?
Be the bigger person, dude.
Just because they suck da cawk doesn't mean you should too. This kind of thing is what perpetuates many of the evils in the world, and you don't have to be that way. If you don't want to be the better person, then keep living with the guilt of bringing others down, but I warn you, bitterness and hatred are difficult to rid yourself of, and even more difficult to live with.
Bitterness towards others, looking down on others... it is a cancer that hurts YOU more than anyone else. The more it spreads, the more difficult it is to stop, and the more painful your life will get. You may not always be able to control your thoughts, but you CAN control your actions.
Was that supposed to be a condescendingly intelligent response? I've seen better out of other people who pretend to be smarter than they actually are. Just some info: I managed to graduate high school with a weighted GPA of 3.5 (without studying), 2 sports, 24 hours of community service, 3 AP classes, 2 college courses and am attending Stony Brook University to major in mathematics. It was not too long ago that I placed out of english in two colleges and finished the ASVAB, a three hour test, in thirty minutes with an AFQT of 88. MY reported IQ is a 145/150 according to MENSA's chairman and as of a year ago I was informally diagnosed with mild Aspberger syndrome. I'm just sick of being hated for the way I am by both my family and friends and I get so emotional sometimes that I just can't put what I'm thinking or feeling into words. It still doesn't stop me from shitting on the world.
haha Wow you do have issues!
As I'm not American all the above means nothing to me - although I do have a higher IQ than you.
What I said above is a famous quote that often helps people to think before they lash out and the second statement was to suggest you explain to people why they are being @ssholes rather than just lash out with an insult.
You're reading too much into people's intentions to help you and I would suggest that if you continue to respond in that way, you're going to be very lonely :o( Your emotional outbursts may just be hormones if you are under 25 - try herbal Kalms tablet.
I've just read up on Aspbergers in order to understand you better and I think maybe you should live by ...
"If you've nothing nice to say, say nothing at all."
"Least said soonest mended."
"I'm not american therefore all of the above means nothing to me"-Why didn't you just read it then? It would have conveyed a lot
And you don't, I ignored a few questions on each test I took if I were to take them I would have scored a 148 and I also have a few substantiated mental productions that could categorize me as untestable (if that's the word) by at least a few standards...and I think my problem is that I spend too much time judging and I forgot to mention that I've been living in AL for seven months and still have another seven to go-the entire situation was sort of an accident, and before then I was thrown out of my long island home for something someone else did and the owner's greed. I also did explain it to them except they just thought I was extremely narrow-minded-but then again how else do you apply labels per definition to people? If we didn't judge people by their actions then we would just be throwing around random insults that really had no place in the ears of a listener. I also should have written that I did not speak for a few months (which I also forgot as I was writing bc the people I live with wouldn't stop screaming and it made my nerves go haywire)
This shit here means nothing to me:
"I managed to graduate high school with a weighted GPA of 3.5 (without studying), 2 sports, 24 hours of community service, 3 AP classes, 2 college courses and am attending Stony Brook University to major in mathematics. It was not too long ago that I placed out of english in two colleges and finished the ASVAB, a three hour test, in thirty minutes with an AFQT of 88."
So I did read it.
You are a strange one alright!
I assume coz you're getting a bit of attention you want to rant.
You are an @sshole!
I also don't see how you not being an american applies here since contextual elements of what I say (such as my identity and manner of speech) are at play just as they are when everyone else is speaking and said elements are homogeneous in all communicative settings so definitively, what someone means is not affected at all by their nationality/citizenship.
So no, I am not always right but I try my best to be. It's my only way of feeling that I have a role in social situations since I don't display feasible empathic abilities-I also just listen to what people say, it's my only way of understanding what's being said to me to an extent.