Well, I think you should work on your self-esteem and view yourself as someone who can catch guyz attention. But its also good to doubt a little bit people and doing that doesn't mean that your not worth loving , it simply means that certain individual simply don't have good intentions, and thats a reality that you should always keep in mind so that you don't give your trust to too many people and end up getting burn!
Aw you are right, see, the posibilities, the real things and a good advice, this is a perfect example of seeing the things objectively, when these thoughts come to my mind, I forget to think rational and start to see it all black or white.
Eerything seems so heavy, so big, so determinant and decisive. I stop thinking who I am, what I have, what my qualities are, and I look so dangerous, so mean, and at the same time so guilty.
Aw many things.
I really appreciate your comment, it made me think many things. Thank you! Hugs*
Not so young, but I still have all of these fears, long long story. I'm 25, but I've never had a boyfriend. Strong childhood, confusing adolescence, many fights with my mind lol, I'm recovering.
Is it normal that I feel guys make fun of me always?
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Well, I think you should work on your self-esteem and view yourself as someone who can catch guyz attention. But its also good to doubt a little bit people and doing that doesn't mean that your not worth loving , it simply means that certain individual simply don't have good intentions, and thats a reality that you should always keep in mind so that you don't give your trust to too many people and end up getting burn!
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Aw you are right, see, the posibilities, the real things and a good advice, this is a perfect example of seeing the things objectively, when these thoughts come to my mind, I forget to think rational and start to see it all black or white.
Eerything seems so heavy, so big, so determinant and decisive. I stop thinking who I am, what I have, what my qualities are, and I look so dangerous, so mean, and at the same time so guilty.
Aw many things.
I really appreciate your comment, it made me think many things. Thank you! Hugs*
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No probz your welcome :D!, are you fairly young?
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Not so young, but I still have all of these fears, long long story. I'm 25, but I've never had a boyfriend. Strong childhood, confusing adolescence, many fights with my mind lol, I'm recovering.
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I hope you do well in your recovering process, are you working hard at it?
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Well, I've been in therapy, I quit because I couldn't afford it anymore and I returned to it about a week ago.
Hope to get better
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Well therapy is a great start :D!But don't forget to do some side work at the same time, like recognizing negative thought and etc!