Is it normal that i feel guilty and slutty about sex?

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I'm in my twenties and am seeing this guy but it's long-distance so we're not in a relationship. I like him a lot and I know he likes me, and I know I want a sexual relationship with him. However, every time it comes time to do the deed, I feel guilty, or like I'm slutty because we're not committed. Is it normal to feel this way?

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  • MissWhip
    12 years ago | pl

    Sex is a primal instinct so it most cases its not wrong and from what I read you are wanting it for all the right reasons so try to relax and enjoy it. Due to your nurture it seems you get a feeling of guilt or feeling slutty.

    Wouldn't say its normal but I'd say its unrealistic emotions and you will get over it.

    Good luck

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  • Austalien
    11 years ago | pl

    sign yeah if your brought up with strict religion ect, They fucked your mind up for life, Just have fun and deprogram from that guilt shit ect

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  • honeydew
    12 years ago | pl

    Thanks :) I appreciate the advice

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  • snehaks
    12 years ago | pl

    Its very normal to feel slutty about casual sex in an uncommitted relationship!! It really depends on a person.... are you in for such a casual sex? If you think its wrong than it is wrong! Now some people dont mind having casual sex and they might think you are overreacting!!

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