Guys get this with older women , just not sure most guys even recognize it when it's happening that's all.
Me , I try to send out the don't even think about it vibe or if it gets to a hug, your sort of backing it off before it even a hug, not too touchy then move away again, even turn away a little before it starts. They pick it up and don't try again or approach you in the first place once your good at it.
People can have a hug look or ask me look about them , seem approachable and if they're good looking then people are looking for it too so don't send it out if you don't like the attention.
The trick is to not seem approachable, doesn't have to be cold or bitchy and if it is a touch tough it's your space , your your own boss, you decide what you do or don't want to do, just look or start to move away when you see it comings, don't invite it with niceness or welcoming smiles.
Is it normal that I feel guilty after being hit on?
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Guys get this with older women , just not sure most guys even recognize it when it's happening that's all.
Me , I try to send out the don't even think about it vibe or if it gets to a hug, your sort of backing it off before it even a hug, not too touchy then move away again, even turn away a little before it starts. They pick it up and don't try again or approach you in the first place once your good at it.
People can have a hug look or ask me look about them , seem approachable and if they're good looking then people are looking for it too so don't send it out if you don't like the attention.
The trick is to not seem approachable, doesn't have to be cold or bitchy and if it is a touch tough it's your space , your your own boss, you decide what you do or don't want to do, just look or start to move away when you see it comings, don't invite it with niceness or welcoming smiles.