I understand you and arguimg with natural instincts you are even quite right. However you have to ask yourself if your grilfriend is in any way unfaithful when she visits this gyno. I suppose you'd at least say, she doesn't mean to be unfaithful. Furthrmore you should be aware of the fact that such visits are hardly ever comfortable or something women want to do. So in the end you could compare this to a situation, where you (without especially wanting to do so) see some nude art or a nude person on TV. In her case however it's something she even has to do and probably dislikes herself.
Now why won't she go to a female gyno instead?
Well getting used to a gyno is awkward enough I guess, but maybe he's just the best one she heard of or she has any other plausible reason to stay where she hasn't made any bad expiriences (Him being the first to warm up his tools beforehand could be enough - sry I could let the chance for this pun pass by ;).
So I guess you would do best, if you could just let HER make this decision on her own, I'm sure you can think of far more important topics concerning your relationship and how you can make her have a good time.
Is it normal that I feel depressed about this?
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I understand you and arguimg with natural instincts you are even quite right. However you have to ask yourself if your grilfriend is in any way unfaithful when she visits this gyno. I suppose you'd at least say, she doesn't mean to be unfaithful. Furthrmore you should be aware of the fact that such visits are hardly ever comfortable or something women want to do. So in the end you could compare this to a situation, where you (without especially wanting to do so) see some nude art or a nude person on TV. In her case however it's something she even has to do and probably dislikes herself.
Now why won't she go to a female gyno instead?
Well getting used to a gyno is awkward enough I guess, but maybe he's just the best one she heard of or she has any other plausible reason to stay where she hasn't made any bad expiriences (Him being the first to warm up his tools beforehand could be enough - sry I could let the chance for this pun pass by ;).
So I guess you would do best, if you could just let HER make this decision on her own, I'm sure you can think of far more important topics concerning your relationship and how you can make her have a good time.