Is it normal that i feel bisexual coz of her?

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Okay,so i'm in High School.I'm usually quiet,but I can talk to people I like.I recently got acquainted to this girl in my class.I am a total chic.Think about pink ruffles and a pink car (lol) and you see me.I wear heels randomly...I'm just a girl.So,this chick,*s*,is so cool.She is REALLY TOMBOYISH and I think I've fallen for her.I am so confused.She is so pretty and her eyes are so gorgeous.We could sense chemistry from day one when we met,and my bff and I are convinced she is gay,but we are not sure.Every time in class,she makes jokes just so i could lol at them.And everythime we lock eyes,she like does this weird thing with them...I HAVE FALLEN INLOVE and I'm frieking out!!I love boys so much,and I don't know wtf is wrong with me.Maybe I'm bi, or whatever.I mean i love guys and have crushes on many.But this chick,I just really like her.And I trip the F out everytime she mentions how much she likes a guy.And I KNOW she know this,because when my bff and I were like talking to her,we were like "You look gay in your clothes *s*" and she winked at me and asked "Well what if I was?".I was all blush and stuff.But for real,who else is like this?Am I normal?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    This sounds perfectly romantic. Invite her over :) go for it!

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  • PrincessOctavia
    8 years ago | pl

    You're bicurious, at the least. That just means you are interested in both genders. OF course you could be bisexual, or pansexual, nothing wrong with that. Just because you like guys a lot doesn't mean you can't like girls. Here's some questions for you:
    Do you want to kiss her?
    Do you want to touch her?
    Do you want to go out with her?
    Do you want to have sex with her?
    If you answered yes to these then you do like girls, at the very least her.
    Perfectly normal. LGBT's haven't fought for gay marriage and equality for people to be scared of liking more than just the opposite sex. I'm pan, and I can tell you one thing. Gives you a hell of a lot more options than being straight XD Good luck!

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  • Lathande
    12 years ago | pl

    Something very similar to this happened when i was 14. I was so confused because i knew i liked boys but i was absolutely infatuated w her. She moved away before i worked up the nerve to do anything. I have seriously regretted this since then. At the time i was afraid to do anything since having a gf in high school wud b a big decision and have a lot of consequences, I felt. I shud have just gone for it. It'll b ok. You'll always regret the things u don't do more than the things u do

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  • windowlicker
    12 years ago | pl

    She sounds hot. Too bad you have a boyfriend, maybe you could do a threesome :/

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    • ben&jerry<3
      11 years ago | pl

      A threesome would be optimal for you so that you can experiment with your sexuality and not risk rumors/gossip (I know how high school can be).

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago | pl

      I actually don't have a boyfriend as of now:)So a "twosome" is fie by me lmao:)Thx

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago | pl

    have a slumber party... see what happens? >:-)

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  • stealinsugars
    12 years ago | pl

    You have a girl crush. It's perfectly normal. A lot of women have had them at one time or another. To answer your question about being bisexual, if she came on to you or made the first move, would you act on it?

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