I guess I could be considered one of those girls you describe, except that I am a virgin who has only been very close to having sex on several occasions. I could be considered a slut, being in a FWB relationship as opposed to waiting impatiently for a boyfriend who will rip out my already shattered heart. Maybe you know this already, but girls this age aren't always vulnerable and naive. Some mature faster than others. I know that beginning a sexual life has made me more confident, and I feel like I am more vulnerable and get hurt more easily in a relationship as opposed to having some naughty fun. On the other hand, I know how to separate sexual activity and relationships, probably because I never had the both together.
I guess after hearing your girlfriend's experience, it shaped your opinion on how you feel about younger girls having sex. My opinion changed about these girls after I began doing half the things they've done. There might be someone with a completely different opinion. It's normal that you feel this way now, just remember that you cannot stereotype all teen's sexual experiences to your girlfriend's. And discouraging is brutal and annoying. Discouragement would make me feel worse, sure, but not stop me.
IIN that I feel bad/protective towards younger 'slutty' girls?
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I guess I could be considered one of those girls you describe, except that I am a virgin who has only been very close to having sex on several occasions. I could be considered a slut, being in a FWB relationship as opposed to waiting impatiently for a boyfriend who will rip out my already shattered heart. Maybe you know this already, but girls this age aren't always vulnerable and naive. Some mature faster than others. I know that beginning a sexual life has made me more confident, and I feel like I am more vulnerable and get hurt more easily in a relationship as opposed to having some naughty fun. On the other hand, I know how to separate sexual activity and relationships, probably because I never had the both together.
I guess after hearing your girlfriend's experience, it shaped your opinion on how you feel about younger girls having sex. My opinion changed about these girls after I began doing half the things they've done. There might be someone with a completely different opinion. It's normal that you feel this way now, just remember that you cannot stereotype all teen's sexual experiences to your girlfriend's. And discouraging is brutal and annoying. Discouragement would make me feel worse, sure, but not stop me.