Why would someone not be able to take advantage of an older virgin? It seems the crux of your belief lies in that an older but virginal women would somehow be immune from hardship. Yet I think a sexually inexperienced older person would be just as easy a victim and the consequences would often be more damaging.
A bad reputation at school is painful but an abusive husband would be orders of magnitude worse. I'd rather have regrets when I was young and the damage is limited rather than have the same regrets when I am older (as I now am) with much greater damage.
True, no doubt an older virgin could be damaged by similar experiences; and yet older women aren't the subject of my protective instinct, so i can't really comment.
I would argue though, that young and not fully mature girls are far less likely to be equipped to deal with the issues (whether psychological, emotional or physical) that sex is going to inevitably cause. Surely an older person (virgin or otherwise), is going to be more grounded, be better informed, have a better support network and simply have higher self esteem, all of which would make sex a more positive thing?
IIN that I feel bad/protective towards younger 'slutty' girls?
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Why would someone not be able to take advantage of an older virgin? It seems the crux of your belief lies in that an older but virginal women would somehow be immune from hardship. Yet I think a sexually inexperienced older person would be just as easy a victim and the consequences would often be more damaging.
A bad reputation at school is painful but an abusive husband would be orders of magnitude worse. I'd rather have regrets when I was young and the damage is limited rather than have the same regrets when I am older (as I now am) with much greater damage.
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True, no doubt an older virgin could be damaged by similar experiences; and yet older women aren't the subject of my protective instinct, so i can't really comment.
I would argue though, that young and not fully mature girls are far less likely to be equipped to deal with the issues (whether psychological, emotional or physical) that sex is going to inevitably cause. Surely an older person (virgin or otherwise), is going to be more grounded, be better informed, have a better support network and simply have higher self esteem, all of which would make sex a more positive thing?
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What about your mom? Send her to my house and I will teach her how to be slutty!
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haha. don't really feel so protective of her, but i'll pass