I feel that way as well. I think its one thing to be nice to people, but its another to let them walk all over you. You don't have to stop being nice, however, don't let people think you are too nice, because if given the chance, they will take advantage of you or take you for granted.
It really sucks how people can be real jerks sometimes. But you can be nice without completely letting your guard down. And you can even make them think that your guard is actually down when it really isn't, and you still haven't fully trusted them yet. I just think you should watch who you trust.
But also remember that sometimes theres always someone who isn't gonna like you. Its honestly the sad truth. No matter how nice you can be, there usually is always an asshole that will pick some reason from his arse to hate you. Its pathetic, but its the way life is.
Is it normal that I fear other people hating me?
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I feel that way as well. I think its one thing to be nice to people, but its another to let them walk all over you. You don't have to stop being nice, however, don't let people think you are too nice, because if given the chance, they will take advantage of you or take you for granted.
It really sucks how people can be real jerks sometimes. But you can be nice without completely letting your guard down. And you can even make them think that your guard is actually down when it really isn't, and you still haven't fully trusted them yet. I just think you should watch who you trust.
But also remember that sometimes theres always someone who isn't gonna like you. Its honestly the sad truth. No matter how nice you can be, there usually is always an asshole that will pick some reason from his arse to hate you. Its pathetic, but its the way life is.