Is it normal that i fantasize before bed every single night?

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Before I sleep, and at various times during the day, I find myself daydreaming/lucid dreaming whatever you want to call it. I think about different situations/scenarios in which i'm either in a perfect relationship. It's sometimes sexual, but it's often just cuddling. I have constantly done this, ,moving one scenario to another probably since I was an 11 year old child. I'm quite ashamed to say this, but ive never been in a relationship. I've never been in love but I believe in love. My real life is kinda depressing. I'll admit I daydream as an escape, and sometimes it's just what I need. I have an extremely introverted personality, I can really only express myself online. I realize that i'ts too soon to tell at my age, but I feel like i'll be alone forever ¬_¬ ...

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  • Ellenna
    7 years ago | pl

    Daydreaming or fantasising when you're awake isn't the same thing as lucid dreaming, which is when you're asleep.

    Both are normal: maybe you can learn to lucid dream whatever it is you're fantasising about?

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  • Lylos
    7 years ago | pl

    Those fantasies probably depict what you want in life, and they're useful because they 'prepare' you for situations that still have to happen.
    Always try to seek the best possible behaviour in these fantasies, and also work hard in real life to make it happen, because it doesn't happen by itself.
    If you have troubles approaching people, don't search for attractive ones that already have all they need. Search for girls/boys that would need you, they'll be an angel for you if you are an angel for them.
    If you only know people online, ask to meet them. That's how I did despite being very introverted.

    I also had fantasies like these when I was younger, and I haven't had a relationship until I was 20, but I now have a almost-wife who frequently says me I'm the best boyfriend in the world, and it's always encouraging. Good luck!

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