Is it normal that i fantasize about being raped?

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I've been raped before, a couple of times actually. And I always wonder how I end up putting myself in those situations but I realized it's because I like being dominated in that way. I get so horny when I imagine someone breaking into my house, coming in my room, and tying me up and having their way with me. I've never had a boyfriend or girlfriend that was willing to role play this with me and have actually told me how strange they thought it was, so I haven't brought it up to other people. Is it normal or am I just weird?

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  • Cookiecutter
    6 years ago | pl

    A rape fantasy is super common and totally normal.

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  • lolamanilow77
    4 years ago | pl

    totally normal!! i am realizing that i have a bondage fetish and the thought is making me quite excited. ive never been really tied up before,just one time my drunk gf was playing around when we were at her boyfriends house and wound up letting her "attack" me and i let her and bf tie my hands and "make out" with me... it was actually turning me on though i didnt say anything! since then ive been secretly wanting to be tied up for real and "taken", but im scared of not being in control...does this make sense?

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  • boygemini
    6 years ago | pl

    mmm a very taboo question. IN the fantasy world it is normal... I am gay. A few months ago, I was riding my bike on a rather deserted stretch of road, and a car with three guys in it passed by. They whistle loudly at me... then drove on. I fantasized about them stopping, turning around, and coming back for me. A rape fantasy :)

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  • ILikeSweets
    6 years ago | pl

    I'm the hottest guy in school

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  • ILikeSweets
    6 years ago | pl

    Chat privately with me too

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago | pl

    No it is not normal but it does depend on how you define rape. My wife has been gang banged 5 times in the past, would you class this yourself as rape or sexual pleasure.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      6 years ago | pl

      It depends. Did she want it or was it a legitimate gang bang situation? If it was a set up thing, then no, but if it was not planned by her, then yes, that is rape. I define rape as if I tell you to stop, (and you can tell when I REALLY mean stop) and you keep going or pin me down to where I can't fight back, that's rape.

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      • [Old Memory]
        6 years ago | pl

        Well I guess you could call the last gang bang rape then in Jamaica when 8 local guys used her. We'd been to a party, around 50 guests were there, and by late evening we'd all had too much to drink. My wife was flirting with the guys and letting them touch and squeeze her breasts when one of them suggested to his friend that they remove what little clothing she was wearing. My wife had gone wearing just a summer strappy dress and thong so only two items to remove. Anyhow she was soon naked and didn't seem to resist them removing her clothing. Within seconds she was on the floor with one of the guys and it was clear she was having intercourse and enjoying it. It ended with 8 local guys using her and filling her three holes much to the delight of the other guys there who were encouraging them. I'd never seen my wife gang banged like this and how could I stop them, to some extent it was a turn on for me seeing her being used like this. My wife admitted afterwards that it was a big turn on for her and was not able to stop it happening at the time.

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  • peterrabbyt4
    6 years ago | pl

    When you are raped and beaten badly enough you will know that you are wrong.

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  • xfg41
    6 years ago | pl

    You and I should chat privately.

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