Is it normal that i fantasize about being kidnapped?

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Ever since I was 11 I would fantasize about strange things. All though I would never want this to happen to me in real life, or to anyone else for that matter.

So, I tend to fantasize about being kidnapped, and hurt infront of someone I love (like a person I'm in a relationship with). Just the thought of them seeing me in pain, and fantasizing about it makes me happy. Again, I would NEVER want this to actually happen to me or anyone! Usually I'll turn on some dramatic music and fantasize. I really hate this. I don't even want to be like this..but I just can't help it.... Any advice on what this is and how to make it stop would help, thank you for your time!

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  • ThatsWhatWeDeerDo
    12 years ago

    I used to do this.. I even had handcuffs O_O
    I think this is totally normal.. I think it's basically just curiosity..

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  • missalina
    12 years ago

    you come up with this senario because you crave a strong emotional response from the guy you like. plain and simple.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      12 years ago

      Damn, you're 100% right!

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  • InvadingPotatoLeader
    12 years ago

    Pedobear seal of approval!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Hey, I fantasize about doing this to people...

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  • 1jellybean
    6 years ago

    I actually want to be kidnapped lol text or call 509 771 1368

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  • Milenajonijon
    12 years ago

    Wen I was in high school I was in AP English and they gave us a story called "rape fantasies" to read. It was sort of a comedy but only because it was so funny to read that other women also had strange fantasies of being accosted in a violent way, objectified or kidnapped. I think it's normal ! The best part is knowing u would never do it in real life, or be ok with it. Your safe in your thoughts.

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  • hmvsummer
    12 years ago

    You just want attention, you probably don't feel like you get enough love/support/care/etc. in your everyday life. You want people to notice you.

    This is common, but the more common thing people thing of, is like "what would happen if I was dead..who would come..." etc. It's just kind of like you questioning yourself on who really cares about you, if people notice you, etc.

    Once you realize that you are loved & people do pay attention to you, you shouldn't really have these thoughts anymore :)

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