Chill out guys!! i will buy him gifts for sure but i dont want this relationship to be one sided!!! if i love him i will have no problem spending money on him, however he should have no problems doing so also!! by the way, we still live in a gendered world, it's more common for a man to use a woman for everything...think about it, after your first dinner out, since it's a first date, you expect him to act like a gentleman and pay, just like he opened car doors for you before, then he stammers: you are an independent woman... let's go dutch.
how would you feel??
well, if this relationship gets intimate we will share things including expenses, but in courtship i definitely expect the man to pay!!
sometimes nice girls get dumped because they refuse to be a princess. sometimes too much of a princess gets dumped too cuz she refuses to be a girl
Is it normal that I expect my boyfriend to spend money on me?
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Chill out guys!! i will buy him gifts for sure but i dont want this relationship to be one sided!!! if i love him i will have no problem spending money on him, however he should have no problems doing so also!! by the way, we still live in a gendered world, it's more common for a man to use a woman for everything...think about it, after your first dinner out, since it's a first date, you expect him to act like a gentleman and pay, just like he opened car doors for you before, then he stammers: you are an independent woman... let's go dutch.
how would you feel??
well, if this relationship gets intimate we will share things including expenses, but in courtship i definitely expect the man to pay!!
sometimes nice girls get dumped because they refuse to be a princess. sometimes too much of a princess gets dumped too cuz she refuses to be a girl