Agreed, however it seems to be taken much more seriously when a male stalks a female, then when it's reverse. I had a girl that used to follow me around, and show up to my work, and she would even climb onto my second story balcony to see if the sliding door was unlocked. I called the police one night when I caught her in my apartment watching me sleep, and they told me to lock my apartment up better because they can't do anything about it.
Ya, more like scary as shit! She was a potential customer at a place where I sold cars, after a few months though she gave up her "attentions" and I haven't seen her since. I lock my porch door now and use a large dowel rod in the slide area in case the lock fails.
But to answer your question, in my situation a year ago, I had no physical proof of what was going on. That being said the police didn't have a leg to stand on.
Actually, that is a very aptly timed question. My fiance just filed a restraining order on a bouncer at one of the clubs here in town today. He got her phone number from facebook and has been threatening to blackmail her for sex. He says that he will "ruin her life" if she refuses. We went to the phone store and printed off a transcript of all her incoming and outgoing texts, and that along with the facebook messages and pictures he has been sending her (and now me) was enough to get a restraining order.
That's terrible, but at least you and and your fiance have legal protection now. I would be scared if that happened to me. Some people in this world are sick.
I wasn't as worried as her, as we live in a large city and it is unlikely he could ever find my apartment. But I work twelve hour shifts at work (hence me being on here so much) and she felt really uncomfortable being home alone, so we went ahead with the restraining order.
Is it normal that I enjoy stalking hot guys and I'm female.
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Agreed, however it seems to be taken much more seriously when a male stalks a female, then when it's reverse. I had a girl that used to follow me around, and show up to my work, and she would even climb onto my second story balcony to see if the sliding door was unlocked. I called the police one night when I caught her in my apartment watching me sleep, and they told me to lock my apartment up better because they can't do anything about it.
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sounds more like they just didn't want to do anything.
cos i call "bull crap" on the "we can't do anything about it" line...
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lolz ya i kinda felt the same way. But can't or wont, the main focus was that they didn't.
Wow.... that's really REALLY creepy....
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Ya, more like scary as shit! She was a potential customer at a place where I sold cars, after a few months though she gave up her "attentions" and I haven't seen her since. I lock my porch door now and use a large dowel rod in the slide area in case the lock fails.
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can't you get a restraining order or something like that?
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But to answer your question, in my situation a year ago, I had no physical proof of what was going on. That being said the police didn't have a leg to stand on.
Actually, that is a very aptly timed question. My fiance just filed a restraining order on a bouncer at one of the clubs here in town today. He got her phone number from facebook and has been threatening to blackmail her for sex. He says that he will "ruin her life" if she refuses. We went to the phone store and printed off a transcript of all her incoming and outgoing texts, and that along with the facebook messages and pictures he has been sending her (and now me) was enough to get a restraining order.
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That's terrible, but at least you and and your fiance have legal protection now. I would be scared if that happened to me. Some people in this world are sick.
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I wasn't as worried as her, as we live in a large city and it is unlikely he could ever find my apartment. But I work twelve hour shifts at work (hence me being on here so much) and she felt really uncomfortable being home alone, so we went ahead with the restraining order.