Is it normal that i end up seducing men even without realizing

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I have been living with my friend for like an year and a half and funny enough most of the boyfriend they have claim that I look at the with suggestive eyes.on two occasions two of her boyfriends have tried to sleep with me and actual the recent one assaulted me. i never reported it just to keep the friendship going and still because it appeared like its all my fault cause he claimed i seduced him. i have also had complains from other people saying that i seduce them in numerous ways one of them being "suggestive eyes", i kinda believed its my fault because they all say the same thing and there is no way they all can be mistaken. to me it is confusing how i end seducing them unknowingly. is this really normal? this is getting a notch higher when every time it has to be me seducing my best friend's boyfriend. i am in desperate need of help since my friend hates me now.

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  • cipro
    4 years ago

    Post pix so we can tell.

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  • SwickDinging
    4 years ago

    I hate to be judgemental but every female I've met who tells me this kind of story is always instigating it. If I were to be kind I would say it's subconscious, but it always looks deliberate to me. If it's a one off then fine, but when it happens a lot you are the common denominator.

    I am slim with a curvy body (notably gigantic tits) and I've been told by many that I have an attractive face too. Before I got married I had plenty of male attention. And I have managed to maintain many male friendships in my life so far without them all trying to fuck me. I make it very clear in my body language and my treatment of them that I am only interested in friendship. And I choose friends who aren't immature retards who try and fuck all their female friends. You can usually tell right out of the gate if a man is interested in you as more than a friend, and if you don't want to reciprocate those feelings that's when you use your fabulous maturity and independence to say "I'm not interested, leave me alone" and you don't give him the time of day anymore. You don't encourage his behaviour.

    Start being less suggestive in your behaviour, and start being more choosy about male friends and roomates, and you will find that this problem magically disappears.

    I'm sorry if this sounds bitchy because I really don't mean it to be, I've just known many girls in these situations and everyone (male and female) talks behind their back about how they throw themselves at men for the attention and how pathetic it is, but no one wants to say it to their face. Don't spend your life being that girl. You are better than that.

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    • Imamesss
      4 years ago

      Well said

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  • [Old Memory]
    4 years ago

    I had a girlfriend like that once. She just had this sparkle in her eyes. Probs what attracted me to here in the first place. It used to annoy me cause she was really friendly and guys thought she was flirting with them. But I got used to it and didn't care, I learnt this was not what she was doing.

    She ended up kissing my brother and fucking my friend... Ahh the good ol' days

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  • IrishPotato
    4 years ago

    Stop dressing like a whore then.

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    • Maggie-D
      4 years ago

      actually you have not seen the way i dress yet you have concluded i dress like a whore. anyway thanks for the advice i will check if my dressing code is the reason they treat me like a "whore"

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      • IrishPotato
        4 years ago

        I'm pretty sure you instigate and encourage it.

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      • McBean
        4 years ago

        Avoiding eye contact will help. Look at the guy's chin, or shoulders.

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  • Siimiimasanga
    4 years ago

    maybe you're kind of autistic. This is how I am and I'm a bit autistic

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  • RoseIsabella
    4 years ago

    Are you really sassy, and flirty?

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      4 years ago

      Flirty? no. i asked the friend whose boyfriend said am seducing him but she said she cant say i flirt with her boyfriends.... as for being sassy, i really dont know if they consider my style and attitude sassy

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      • RoseIsabella
        4 years ago

        Hmm... so your friend's boyfriend is just a loser, and a creep who is sexually harassing you then.

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