Is it normal that i dont want sex from my girlfriend

I've dated her for about 3 years now and weve been having great sex, but I don't want sex from her anymore. It just doesn't feel right. I love the hugs and kisses to a point, but when we go all the way it just makes me I feel like crap.

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Comments ( 19 )
  • Do you feel tingley in your pants when you see a mans throbbing penis? If you see a penis does your pucker hole open and close with anticipation? If so you may be craving some man gravy. Go out a pick up a homeless man put his willy in your mouth then in your bum and see if it does anything for you. If this doesnt help I am not sure what the problem is.

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    • Lol... I needed a laugh... Man gravy

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    • BIGHAIRYMAN

      LOLWUT

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  • ccjigsaw

    Sounds like there might be some psychological factor behind this, you need to soul search and find out what that is if your looking to fix this (Did she push sex on you, try something you weren't comfortable with? Happens to guys to, trust me.)

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  • bleach_baby

    In what way does it make you feel like crap? I think this story is missing some detail.

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    • Alison89

      That's what I was thinking.

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  • joybird

    Sounds like this relationship has run its course and you're now bored. Time to move on.

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    • Its just sex... I love the girl.. we still get along well but sex with her just doesn't turn out the same

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      • Juniper

        maybe you feel like you're using her?

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  • chatter289

    that sounds so sad :(. Talk to her, communication is the key, you obviously love her right???

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  • dodongos

    I'm the same way.
    I actually hate all you fucks who think it's abnormal to not want to fuck someone's daughter 24/7.

    Don't worry, it's actually normal.

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  • fullhouse

    Try spicing things things up in the bedroom. If the sex is so good then why feel like crap afterwards? May be it'als psychological and you can see a doc.
    It's unfair for her too. I mean she deserves the pleasure offcourse.

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  • "My mind's telling me no
    But my body, my body's telling me yes
    Baby, I don't wanna hurt nobody
    But there is something that I must confess to you
    I don't see nothing wrong with a little bump n' grind
    I don't see nothing wrong"

    Sorry, that song came to my head when I read your story. But, on a serious note. You're not alone on that one. I have had a friend in that same situation. You might need to find what your real motives are with this chick now. What kind of love is it that you have torwards her now? Think about it. IIN website is here to help. ;)

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  • ishitpandas

    Shouldn't be with her

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  • littlebit3911

    try spicing things up in the bedroom. once youve been together for a while the same old thing does get boring. if that doesnt work, its probably time to move on or else live without the sex. it will only cause you more problems in the future.

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  • JBN

    It is very normal for men to want a change; I think it is built into us by nature. After two years, I usually want to see what else there is, sexually speaking.

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  • mark777

    I'm at a loss to explain it also.

    we need more information.

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress

    perhaps you changed your mind.

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  • Whatever you do, do not cheat or tell you gf about this. I suggest trying to figure out why it is that you feel this way. It sounds like this behavior is pretty recent. Try going to a counselor or sex therapist, maybe they can help you out.

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