Is it normal that I dont relate love and sex at all?

I thought I was the only who noticed he only comments on girls stories and gets very butthurt in the process.

Wrong cowboy.

"C'mon u know if u had the chance to slut around u would and u would still be callin urself a good guy so dont be so judgmental"

I can slut around all I want but the thing is I don't want to because it's not a healthy thing to do. I've got about 15 girls in this town I live in (moved here recently) that want to hook up with me. I'm only considering two of them. Most of the others are cute but there's no reason to just randomly screw so many girls so I've narrowed it down to the two I like most.

Slutting around is bad because :

*It's a health risk.
*It's a waste of my time.
*It can cause unwanted drama and flirting with these girls already has caused unwanted drama for me and I haven't even slept with any of them yet.
*While slutting around with random unimportant girls I may be missing opportunities to be with a great girl. And if that 'great' girl finds out I've slutted around with dozens of little sluts then she may not take me seriously or she may find it very hard to trust me.

I wouldn't blame her. All of these girls work at the stores, restaurants, etc. in this small town so I literally couldn't go anywhere without running into a girl I've fucked plenty if I fuck them. So how could this 'great' girl that I'd want to be my girlfriend feel comfortable with me in this town knowing that?

She probably couldn't and even if she could in the back of her mind she'd be thinking every time I'm out I'm fucking some little slut I met / knew that works at some store or restaurant that I ran into.

I wouldn't trust a slut that's fucked a bunch of guys in this town or anywhere especially knowing that she would be running into them every day while shopping, grabbing lunch, etc.

If you or others would, then I think you'd be foolish.

I'm in my 40's, I know what I'm talking about. I've lived it and I'm smart enough to think ahead and avoid trouble most of the time.

Remember that unwanted drama thing I was mentioning?
Well, I've flirted with most of these girls and they're all smiley and googley eyed for me which is fun but after a few weeks of me not asking them out they start to turn very bitter!
Literally one was throwing me mean 'how dare I' looks at me across the store one day when I was shopping. She was staring me down watching me and I was with family members shopping so not cool at all. I later learned from someone that knows that girl that she's married and recently called the cops on a guy she was flirting with and filed a restraining order against him when SHE was also flirting with him and leading him on.
Nuts. Glad I didn't fuck her!

Another girl I was flirting with turned totally depressed and was beaten down one of the last times I saw her.
I walked into the store and saw her so I was looking at her to get her attention and I smiled and waved 'hi' to her and when she saw me she literally just got totally sad because she knows I wasn't asking her out and probably won't be. I did some shopping and she was my cashier so we chatted and I flirted with her more and made her happy again but not like when we first met.

Another girl I recently met is a family member's friend. She's 17. I met her for like 2 minutes then left. She told my family member she wants to date me and hook up/etc. and to find out if I want to hook up with her.
I didn't. She was really cute and sexy but I don't think we're really compatible and I picked up on other vibes when chatting her so I decided to not go there. What happened next?
Next time I saw her like a week later I said 'hi' to her and smiled and she was all bitchy and mean to me. Way bitter bro.
Many girls are like land mines and need to be carefully avoided.
That was some time ago and now she's over it so she's nice again. She's actually married but still wants to hook up but I don't go there.
She had a kid too and is kinda fat now. Not really fat just a little plump.

Want another one?
A girl that I am considering that works at a market here in town was totally flirty with me and I with her but then I let a lot of time lapse because I was out of town, busy, sick/didn't really care to hook up with her or anyone so I let it die down.

What was the result?
I just saw her again and she was very cold, distant and bitter. I actually smoothed things over with her and she said she wanted to go out with me but I'm not so sure. She also looked thrashed compared to how she normally was.

Anyway this is what I've been telling you guys, girls I flirt with or hook up with go bonkers for me, literally.
If I don't get on them they get bitter or depressed or whatever. When I do make one my gf or we hook up it can be good but it's a lot of work and very time consuming which I don't really want to put up with right now.

In another town I lived in I've had a waitress that wanted to date me so badly that she offered to pay my tab whenever I came into the restaurant and she wanted me to invite my friends, etc. She offered to comp my meals, pitchers of beer, etc. My guy friends were like 'HELL YEAH!" but I don't believe in using people so I never let her pay my bill and I actually started avoiding her and that place because it was awkward. I even tried to hook my buddy up with her and they hung out but she didn't like him. She only wanted me.

I'm generally very picky especially when I was younger.

I've got so many experiences with girls/women like these that it's partially why I don't slut around.

There's really nothing good that comes from fucking more than one girl to be honest.
When I was younger I've fucked and dated a lot of girls and guess what I got for it?
NOTHING. I'd trade all of the 'wrong' ones for just one right one :)

There's so many drawbacks to slutting around compared to being in a monogamous relationship, to me it's just not worth it.

Btw, one of the two girls might be a bit of slut so I might forget her.
Why should I lower myself and deal with a slut and those issues when I can get prime meat that half the town hasn't fucked?