You feel like a failure as a mother because your struggling without support which equals you being stressed out and exhausted where you just wish you were alone so you could get a break. Add that in with teenaged girls (I'm assuming their normal teenagers and can be a handful and rebellious) and it's a mental struggle for you. Do you love them and just don't like them right now? Or do you just not love them? Really you need to change your attitude on this I know it's hard but you should look at it as an opportunity to grow closer to you girls by explaining to them how you feel. They may not care because most teenagers are selfish but they may surprise you, they may feel neglected by you and can sense you don't like them, which can do major emotional damage. Cheer up it's hard and sucks but if you raise good, self sufficient, law abiding women than you were a success!
Is it normal that I dont like my kids?
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You feel like a failure as a mother because your struggling without support which equals you being stressed out and exhausted where you just wish you were alone so you could get a break. Add that in with teenaged girls (I'm assuming their normal teenagers and can be a handful and rebellious) and it's a mental struggle for you. Do you love them and just don't like them right now? Or do you just not love them? Really you need to change your attitude on this I know it's hard but you should look at it as an opportunity to grow closer to you girls by explaining to them how you feel. They may not care because most teenagers are selfish but they may surprise you, they may feel neglected by you and can sense you don't like them, which can do major emotional damage. Cheer up it's hard and sucks but if you raise good, self sufficient, law abiding women than you were a success!