Is it normal that i dont like my boyfriend to watch me being pleasured

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Is Is Normal for me not to like my boyfriend to watch me while being pleasured? Im 22 and he's 23. We've been together for quite some time and he loves to eat me out and finger me. I feel i guess embarrassed if he watches me while he's doing so. I'm not fat or anything and i know im not ugly but im just so very self conscious and i don't know what to do or if anyone else is like this.... It may be i don't know what he's thinking or if the way i'm acting is turning him on and what not....I try not to cover my face with my hands/pillows but i panic and get nervous if i don't. He is very comforting about it and there for me but i still can't get over it. What do i do?

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago | pl

    Aww. I'd be a sad panda if my future girlfriend would be like that. So you have to think about what makes you feel that way. Then how to fix it. You shouldn't be embarrased though.

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  • pixie_dust
    12 years ago | pl

    guys getso turned on by watching girls enjoying sex! why do u think porn is so popular? when I was young I used to be embarassed to m.asterbate in front of my man and what not, but now im in my 30s going thru my sexual peak and left the stupid baggage like that behind me. ur young, u just need to realize its the opposite. you should get more turned on when ur man sees u enjoying what he's doing! for real, when he goes down on u, seeing u enjoy it is like the fruits of his labor! talk to any guy and ask him if u dont believe me!

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    • iintolovethissite
      12 years ago | pl

      yeah i fully agree pixie its not like were going down on you girls so we cum lol, we gett off on seeing you girls gett off :) lol,

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  • JustDave
    12 years ago | pl

    I think its kind of cute!

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  • DanB
    12 years ago | pl

    My ex would get so self conscious she didn't want to like...receive oral. Sounds like a similar case, and it was sorta really annoying, like shed blow me and when I went to return the favor shed like freeze up and cover her body...I didnt get it, she had abs and worked out :/ stupid girls

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  • luv2read
    11 years ago | pl

    U there

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  • BoredGuy
    12 years ago | pl

    oh god, annoying!

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