Suggestion! In regular old stores like walmart and target you can buy something called a vibrator ring. It's just a ring that goes around his penis and makes it vibrate a little. It might help you recognize where he is. He also needs to make an effort to figure out what makes you tick. Doesn't sound like he's having issues, but you as a virgin, it's understandable that you're having problems. You need to slow down and experiment. This doesn't sound like vaginismus. It sounds like a mental block to me to. The way to get rid of the mental block is to get rid of the pressure. Pressure can coem from yourself feeling a need to preform for you partner, or from him being to eager. Either way, get rid of that. Next you have to find things that make you two want eachother. Maybe 69ing? Good luck!
Is it normal that I dont know if he is penetrating me??
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Suggestion! In regular old stores like walmart and target you can buy something called a vibrator ring. It's just a ring that goes around his penis and makes it vibrate a little. It might help you recognize where he is. He also needs to make an effort to figure out what makes you tick. Doesn't sound like he's having issues, but you as a virgin, it's understandable that you're having problems. You need to slow down and experiment. This doesn't sound like vaginismus. It sounds like a mental block to me to. The way to get rid of the mental block is to get rid of the pressure. Pressure can coem from yourself feeling a need to preform for you partner, or from him being to eager. Either way, get rid of that. Next you have to find things that make you two want eachother. Maybe 69ing? Good luck!