Really, a lot of people have different psychs and different preferences. Some people are comfortable with 50 friends, others with 3, some prefer 0.
Do you WANT friends? Are you lonely? Are the people around you interesting? If you are lonely then just find some people to talk to. People will 99 out of 100 times be nice to you if you just come up to them and talk to them. Don't wait for someone to approach you or to invite you over because they won't. (If you won't do it, who will?) And another thing, avoid making friends that you don't enjoy talking to, they just become a burden.
If you aren't really lonely or don't find the people around you interesting then that's ok too. I, personally am ok with being alone. The only reason I would make friends is if I enjoy talking to them, not because I have no one to talk too. In other words I don't rely on friends. On the other hand some people (most people) NEED friends. Some need 500 friends and others only need one, it really depends on the person. You don't have an obligation to make friends or remain friends with a person, you have an obligation to be comfortable, find your comfort zone.
is it normal that i dont have any friends?
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Really, a lot of people have different psychs and different preferences. Some people are comfortable with 50 friends, others with 3, some prefer 0.
Do you WANT friends? Are you lonely? Are the people around you interesting? If you are lonely then just find some people to talk to. People will 99 out of 100 times be nice to you if you just come up to them and talk to them. Don't wait for someone to approach you or to invite you over because they won't. (If you won't do it, who will?) And another thing, avoid making friends that you don't enjoy talking to, they just become a burden.
If you aren't really lonely or don't find the people around you interesting then that's ok too. I, personally am ok with being alone. The only reason I would make friends is if I enjoy talking to them, not because I have no one to talk too. In other words I don't rely on friends. On the other hand some people (most people) NEED friends. Some need 500 friends and others only need one, it really depends on the person. You don't have an obligation to make friends or remain friends with a person, you have an obligation to be comfortable, find your comfort zone.