Is it normal that i dont have an orgasm during intercourse & oral sex?

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I've been with my boyfriend for 4 years now. I only remember cumming maybe 3 times in our 4 year relationship. Our sex is actually pretty good.I always try my hardest to cum but it just doesnt happen. I am pretty comfortable with myself while were having sex.I cant cum during oral sex either. Is there someting seriously wrong with me? Please Help!!!!

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  • chaosdragoon1
    12 years ago | pl

    I will be honest with you. I'm not trying to insult your boyfriend either.

    The majority of men aren't skilled at sex. In 3 years he should know your body enough. But you can't "try" to have an orgasm. Stressing even a little actually goes against having one.

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    • [Old Memory]
      12 years ago | pl

      Definitely agree on the trying too much. You chase them and you can't catch them; they come to you.

      Don't forget that guys are wired to get pleasure for themselves. If it's good for you, fine. But it's not their objective. You have to teach them or take matters into your own hands (or fingers).

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  • cooldavid
    12 years ago | pl

    What about when you are using a vibrator or with other guys?

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  • chicken_nugget
    12 years ago | pl

    I'm the exact same way !. I've been sexually active for about 4 years now & only had orgasmed once.

    Its normal though , some people just cum easier than others , take baby steps until you finally reach your big O ! ;)

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