I don't have aspergers but I am the same way, due to having social anxiety, shyness, self-esteem issue, and maybe some depression. I just never have the confidence to approach and talk to women. And what makes it worse is that I feel like most women have a very strong sense of reading body language and reading emotions, and that makes me paranoid because I feel like any woman that I try to talk to will pick up right away that I am unconfident. Also I feel like I will never be good enough (in other words, tall enough, strong enough, smart enough, good looking enough, interesting enough, etc. for any girl). I'm poor, don't have a good job, not that educated, and my personality is very lame because I don't really have any hobbies or even any friends (no social life). I feel like if I ever did get a girlfriend (somehow) that I would actually feel sorry for her for wanting to be with a loser like me. I see beautiful women all the time that I am attracted to but I am afraid that if I ever tried to get to know her she would automatically think I was boring or weird/strange/lame and leave me for someone who is better in every way.
IIN that I dont have a sex life?
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I don't have aspergers but I am the same way, due to having social anxiety, shyness, self-esteem issue, and maybe some depression. I just never have the confidence to approach and talk to women. And what makes it worse is that I feel like most women have a very strong sense of reading body language and reading emotions, and that makes me paranoid because I feel like any woman that I try to talk to will pick up right away that I am unconfident. Also I feel like I will never be good enough (in other words, tall enough, strong enough, smart enough, good looking enough, interesting enough, etc. for any girl). I'm poor, don't have a good job, not that educated, and my personality is very lame because I don't really have any hobbies or even any friends (no social life). I feel like if I ever did get a girlfriend (somehow) that I would actually feel sorry for her for wanting to be with a loser like me. I see beautiful women all the time that I am attracted to but I am afraid that if I ever tried to get to know her she would automatically think I was boring or weird/strange/lame and leave me for someone who is better in every way.