FUK all those judgmental asses. Any ways, I'm not sure you mentioned if you have tried to enjoy it, or just know how to make it enjoyable for men. I would say try to do it for you. Even though you may find it frustrating at first, it's almost like you're a virgin again, not sure what to do to enjoy it. I have had sex with my partner and didn't care whether or not I enjoyed it, but it didn't make me happy. And I thought that if I didn't mind getting off, then I wouldn't get disappointed if I didn't.
Any man you are with that cares about you is going to want you to enjoy it, so help him to try even if he doesn't get it at first. I suggest you talk to your partner about it and don't stop trying. There is no way a man can get me off alone, believe me, he and I have tried. So I do my own part, I'll stimulate the clit when he penetrates, even though I was really self-conscious about doing this at first. Be more in tune with your body when your having sex than with his, cause men are really in tune to their bodies while having sex, so you should be too. You are not their for a mans pleasure, you are both their for each others pleasure.
That makes sense--men dont seem self-conscious about what they do during sex that works for them. Maybe adding some kind of toy would help. I wonder if men think that they are 'not god enough" if Id suggest adding a toy Its really not them its me. Thanks for the advice.
IIN that I dont care about sex ...at all?
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FUK all those judgmental asses. Any ways, I'm not sure you mentioned if you have tried to enjoy it, or just know how to make it enjoyable for men. I would say try to do it for you. Even though you may find it frustrating at first, it's almost like you're a virgin again, not sure what to do to enjoy it. I have had sex with my partner and didn't care whether or not I enjoyed it, but it didn't make me happy. And I thought that if I didn't mind getting off, then I wouldn't get disappointed if I didn't.
Any man you are with that cares about you is going to want you to enjoy it, so help him to try even if he doesn't get it at first. I suggest you talk to your partner about it and don't stop trying. There is no way a man can get me off alone, believe me, he and I have tried. So I do my own part, I'll stimulate the clit when he penetrates, even though I was really self-conscious about doing this at first. Be more in tune with your body when your having sex than with his, cause men are really in tune to their bodies while having sex, so you should be too. You are not their for a mans pleasure, you are both their for each others pleasure.
I hope that helps:)
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That makes sense--men dont seem self-conscious about what they do during sex that works for them. Maybe adding some kind of toy would help. I wonder if men think that they are 'not god enough" if Id suggest adding a toy Its really not them its me. Thanks for the advice.