Impression is judgement, but you said it as if it was a fact, you didn't say "Girls with makeup appear shallow" it was "Girl that wear makeup are shallow and wouldn't be good in a relationship" and when you told people that if they are looking for long term go for no makeup and short term go for makeup. That was not an impression, that was an idea you made up in your head, because of those judgement you made without even knowing the person.
Oh and it's okay to make first impressions, or judgement, everyone does. But the problem with what you did was you stayed with those first impressions and because of your bad first impressions of a few girls who wore makeup you now circle every girl into the category of bitch because they wear makeup. Which if you actually took the time to get to know those girls you may find is the farthest thing from the truth.
Is it normal that I don't wear make-up?
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I'm talking about the IMPRESSION that it makes not how they actually are. Sorry to offend you.
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Impression is judgement, but you said it as if it was a fact, you didn't say "Girls with makeup appear shallow" it was "Girl that wear makeup are shallow and wouldn't be good in a relationship" and when you told people that if they are looking for long term go for no makeup and short term go for makeup. That was not an impression, that was an idea you made up in your head, because of those judgement you made without even knowing the person.
Oh and it's okay to make first impressions, or judgement, everyone does. But the problem with what you did was you stayed with those first impressions and because of your bad first impressions of a few girls who wore makeup you now circle every girl into the category of bitch because they wear makeup. Which if you actually took the time to get to know those girls you may find is the farthest thing from the truth.
thats called judging... lol.