Perfectly understandable, in my opinion. It's just a matter of prioritizing and it's good that you at least have that much figured out. Plus, it would probably make anyone feel guilty or unfair if they felt they weren't being a good enough friend. Friendship is important, but it should be an equal/equal give and take thing. From your writing, you seem like a person who seems pretty self aware and reflective, so it seems you've already measured out how much of yourself you could really invest in a friendship. Just don't forget to make sacrifices every so often because it's still worth having a meaningful relationship with somebody. =]]
Is it normal that I don't want to make friends that are needy?
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Perfectly understandable, in my opinion. It's just a matter of prioritizing and it's good that you at least have that much figured out. Plus, it would probably make anyone feel guilty or unfair if they felt they weren't being a good enough friend. Friendship is important, but it should be an equal/equal give and take thing. From your writing, you seem like a person who seems pretty self aware and reflective, so it seems you've already measured out how much of yourself you could really invest in a friendship. Just don't forget to make sacrifices every so often because it's still worth having a meaningful relationship with somebody. =]]