Is it normal that i don't want to have sex with my wife?

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We just got married about 7 or 8 months ago and we are young, 18 and 19 and we both love sex and everything but recently (past 3-4 moth) I just haven't wanted to have sex very often. My wife is very sexy and I tell her everyday and she looks sexy and asks me to have sex just about everyday but I usually don't want to even though I can see how sexy she looks. I work between 14-16 hours a day and during the nights and I think that may have something to do with is but I'm my sure. Everything else in our relationship is great except for that and when we do have sex it's great. Is there something wrong with me? If so, what can I do to fix it? (I also love to masturbate all the time but even if i don't I still don't want to)

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  • boba779
    12 years ago

    Trust me I wish I could take it down a gear but I'm I'm the military so I don't really have a choice lol

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  • Mmmpfh
    12 years ago

    You should take some time out for her. I'm currently working 8.5 hours a day, and to me that's plenty!
    Remember that even if you feel totally sexually satisfied, she might not and you try to keep her happy on all fronts. Don't focus on it, just always make her feel loved and cared for!

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    • TerryVie
      12 years ago

      I agree fully. Working THAT much has to take a toll on you.
      You're basically eating, working, sleeping, with little time for anything else.
      If at all possible, shift down a gear and take it more slowly.
      You have a wonderful wife and you should TAKE the time to appreciate and enjoy her and your relationship.

      Ultimately, when you look back at this time of your life, you should be fond of what you did, and have it as good memories. Realizing you didn't "live" when you were young, but wasted your best years and energy on being a worker bee may come back to haunt you later in your life.

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