Of course you will feel shit. You're leaving a big part of your life but it's like your almost assuming you'll have a shit life without him. How do you know what's going to happen once you get to uni?
You shouldn't miss your chance of going to uni because it's a wonderful thing. You'll grow and change so much as a person. You'll gain that independence which I think you need. It seems as he has made his mind up and doesn't want to compromise on your relationship at all. I'm sorry but I don't think he's worth it. Trust me, I've been there before and know how hard it is and just how much it hurts.
But the thing is, life does go on. And we move on. And you couldn't get a much more of a fantastic opportunity of going to uni! You can start your life again! You can change who you are! You'll meet amazing life long friends. You'll probably meet many romantic interests.
Right now, instead of concentrating on the future, you need to think about now and you need to look after yourself. You need to calm down or else everything will seem a lot scarier. You need to realise what your good qualities are and build up your confidence. Break ups are hard and so is starting a new life at uni. If you think you can't do this alone, then get some help! Tell your parents and your doctor. You may be able to have some medication to get you up on your feet again.
I'm sorry darling but I think he's a waste of space. If he makes you feel like this, intentionally or unintentionally, he isn't worth it. You have a chance to start over again, many people don't. Take it. I seriously believe you'll regret it.
If uni is really that bad then you'll have to drop out. All university's do free counselling services for when things get tough. Use that.
Good luck and go! Trust me, it's so worth it.
Is it normal that I don't want to go to uni without my boyfriend?
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Of course you will feel shit. You're leaving a big part of your life but it's like your almost assuming you'll have a shit life without him. How do you know what's going to happen once you get to uni?
You shouldn't miss your chance of going to uni because it's a wonderful thing. You'll grow and change so much as a person. You'll gain that independence which I think you need. It seems as he has made his mind up and doesn't want to compromise on your relationship at all. I'm sorry but I don't think he's worth it. Trust me, I've been there before and know how hard it is and just how much it hurts.
But the thing is, life does go on. And we move on. And you couldn't get a much more of a fantastic opportunity of going to uni! You can start your life again! You can change who you are! You'll meet amazing life long friends. You'll probably meet many romantic interests.
Right now, instead of concentrating on the future, you need to think about now and you need to look after yourself. You need to calm down or else everything will seem a lot scarier. You need to realise what your good qualities are and build up your confidence. Break ups are hard and so is starting a new life at uni. If you think you can't do this alone, then get some help! Tell your parents and your doctor. You may be able to have some medication to get you up on your feet again.
I'm sorry darling but I think he's a waste of space. If he makes you feel like this, intentionally or unintentionally, he isn't worth it. You have a chance to start over again, many people don't. Take it. I seriously believe you'll regret it.
If uni is really that bad then you'll have to drop out. All university's do free counselling services for when things get tough. Use that.
Good luck and go! Trust me, it's so worth it.