I agree that it will be good for you to spend some time apart, so that you can be a bit more independent and meet new people, enjoy your time at uni.
Just a question, is he having the same separation difficulties that you are? If he's being more adamant about "going back to being friends for a while" it means he probably wants to when he goes to uni, maybe you should consider letting him do that. But that doesn't mean that your relationship is over, it can definitely last long-distance.
I think its important to get some independence after high school. If you stay with your boyfriend throughout university you are unlikely to get the kind of experience and have the kind of fun that you may want in the future. Maybe you should consider that your boyfriend isn't EVERYTHING and there's a lot of great stuff waiting for you out there, in uni and beyond.
Is it normal that I don't want to go to uni without my boyfriend?
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I agree that it will be good for you to spend some time apart, so that you can be a bit more independent and meet new people, enjoy your time at uni.
Just a question, is he having the same separation difficulties that you are? If he's being more adamant about "going back to being friends for a while" it means he probably wants to when he goes to uni, maybe you should consider letting him do that. But that doesn't mean that your relationship is over, it can definitely last long-distance.
I think its important to get some independence after high school. If you stay with your boyfriend throughout university you are unlikely to get the kind of experience and have the kind of fun that you may want in the future. Maybe you should consider that your boyfriend isn't EVERYTHING and there's a lot of great stuff waiting for you out there, in uni and beyond.