Sounds to me like you hate gay-related things as they remind you too much of your own struggles. Is not wanting romantic/sexual attention really the only/main reason you hide our sexuality though?
If it was just that, I could admit what I am in real life. I'm real scared of people knowing, since I've been already been bullied. But I really hate it when people goes like: Oh, he's so scared he says he doesn't need anyone, but deep inside he just wants to be loved... No! I don't want a partner because I DON'T WANT A PARTNER! I mean, if I'm going to be despised once I've come out, is loving someone THAT worthy?
I'm bisexual and have faced bullying and discrimination all my life, so I know what you mean. But you've gat to have the courage to be who you are. And yes, it's worth it to find someone who you can share your life with. As for being despised, learn to avoid narrow minded homophobic people. There are plenty of loving people in the world, so don't waste your time with jerks.
I think you don't get me: I-DON'T-WANT-TO-HAVE-A-SOMEONE. Why do I have to be someone I don't want to be? Besides, I don't care for "loving people". I'm not the kind of guy who believes in "friends", more like the loner-kind of person. I just want to stop feeling this bad. Facing it is worse.
You don't get it. You feel bad because you don't have anyone to share your feelings with. You'll never stop hurting until you accept yourself. I hope this helps.
Honestly, if this works the way you say, I prefer to NEVER stop feeling this bad. I said it before: I hate it when people assume I'm just scared and want to be loved. I DON'T! What's wrong with that? Love isn't everything, you know? In fact, love is NOTHING for me! I have a shining piano career ahead of me, and I'm not willing to let THIS wreck everything. Love always brang me problems, so I don't want to love anymore. If you're going to continue with this "everybody wants to be loved :)" nonsense, I'd rather not hearing it. Thanks.
Thanks, and yes, I do feel sexually and romantically attracted to guys, so I know I'm gay. It's just I don't want to have a someone, because I know it wouldn't turn out good. Besides, I don't believe in love.
Okay, well it seems you're pretty set then! If you don't ever want a relationship, then don't be in one!
If, however, the idea of being alone forever seems like a running and hiding or a way of missing out, you probably do actually want to have a relationship but have a problem accepting yourself-which is what you really need to work on. Something that is really hard for the majority of people -gay or not.
Is it normal that I don't want to face homosexuality?
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Sounds to me like you hate gay-related things as they remind you too much of your own struggles. Is not wanting romantic/sexual attention really the only/main reason you hide our sexuality though?
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If it was just that, I could admit what I am in real life. I'm real scared of people knowing, since I've been already been bullied. But I really hate it when people goes like: Oh, he's so scared he says he doesn't need anyone, but deep inside he just wants to be loved... No! I don't want a partner because I DON'T WANT A PARTNER! I mean, if I'm going to be despised once I've come out, is loving someone THAT worthy?
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I'm bisexual and have faced bullying and discrimination all my life, so I know what you mean. But you've gat to have the courage to be who you are. And yes, it's worth it to find someone who you can share your life with. As for being despised, learn to avoid narrow minded homophobic people. There are plenty of loving people in the world, so don't waste your time with jerks.
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I think you don't get me: I-DON'T-WANT-TO-HAVE-A-SOMEONE. Why do I have to be someone I don't want to be? Besides, I don't care for "loving people". I'm not the kind of guy who believes in "friends", more like the loner-kind of person. I just want to stop feeling this bad. Facing it is worse.
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You don't get it. You feel bad because you don't have anyone to share your feelings with. You'll never stop hurting until you accept yourself. I hope this helps.
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Honestly, if this works the way you say, I prefer to NEVER stop feeling this bad. I said it before: I hate it when people assume I'm just scared and want to be loved. I DON'T! What's wrong with that? Love isn't everything, you know? In fact, love is NOTHING for me! I have a shining piano career ahead of me, and I'm not willing to let THIS wreck everything. Love always brang me problems, so I don't want to love anymore. If you're going to continue with this "everybody wants to be loved :)" nonsense, I'd rather not hearing it. Thanks.
You don't want a partner? You're not sexually or romantically attracted to anyone? Then I don't quite understand why you say you're gay?
Also, you don't have to date anyone if you don't want to. You might feel pressured to, but you under no obligation to date someone, of either sex.
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Thanks, and yes, I do feel sexually and romantically attracted to guys, so I know I'm gay. It's just I don't want to have a someone, because I know it wouldn't turn out good. Besides, I don't believe in love.
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Okay, well it seems you're pretty set then! If you don't ever want a relationship, then don't be in one!
If, however, the idea of being alone forever seems like a running and hiding or a way of missing out, you probably do actually want to have a relationship but have a problem accepting yourself-which is what you really need to work on. Something that is really hard for the majority of people -gay or not.
I wish you the best of luck!